Aloha Māmā, he peʻa koʻu
ʻAʻole makemake nā makuahine i ka peʻa... A i ʻole, makemake paha lākou iā lākou, akā ma nā keiki a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. No ka mea, e nānā kākou, i koʻu ola pōkole ʻaʻole au i ʻike i ka makuahine e lele hauʻoli i ka ʻike ʻana i kāna keiki i hoʻi mai i ka home me ka peʻa.
No ke aha i hakakā nui ai nā mākua e pili ana i ka peʻa? Aia i nā mākua a i ʻole he pilikia hanauna? ʻO nā millennials o kēia mau lā, maʻa i ka ʻike ʻana a me ka ʻae ʻana i nā peʻa e like me ke ʻano maʻamau, e like me ke koʻikoʻi i kā lākou mau keiki?
ʻO kēia mau nīnau i hauʻoli iaʻu i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia no kekahi mau makahiki. No ka laʻana, manaʻo koʻu makuahine he hewa ke "pena" i ke kino i hānau maikaʻi ʻia. He nani kēlā me kēia ʻāʻī i kona makuahine, akā ʻo ka manaʻo kumu ʻo koʻu makuahine, he wahine i hānau ʻia i nā makahiki 50, e helu i nā peʻa he poino, ka mea e hoonele ai i ke kino i ka nani, a e hoonani ole ai. "Me he mea lā e ʻimi nei kekahi iā Venus de Milo a i ʻole kahi kiʻi nani. He ʻōlelo hōʻino kēlā, ʻaʻole anei? Wahi a ka makuahine, me ka hilinaʻi he hoʻopaʻapaʻa kūpaʻa a hiki ʻole ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa.
ʻOiaʻiʻo ... ʻaʻohe mea kānalua hou aʻe!
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke koi nei au i kekahi e ʻōlelo ʻo ke kiʻi Helene i hoʻopaʻa ʻia Fabio Viale "ʻino". ʻAʻole paha ʻo ia makemake iā ia, ʻaʻole paha e manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia he nani e like me ke kiʻi ʻole me ka peʻa ʻole, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia "ʻino." He ʻokoʻa ʻo ia. He moʻolelo hoihoi paha kāna. I koʻu manaʻo, no ka mea, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i nā mea ʻono, ʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o ka mea mua.
Eia naʻe, pono e ʻōlelo ʻia he mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua noʻonoʻo ʻia nā peʻa stigma o na hoahewa a me na lawehala... ʻO kēia hoʻoilina, ʻaʻole naʻe, ʻaʻole i mālama ʻia a hiki i kēia lā, paʻakikī loa e hoʻopau.
No nā wahine, ʻo ka ʻōlelo hoʻoweliweli maʻamau, "E noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o kou mau peʻa i kou wā e ʻelemakule ai." a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi: “Pehea inā e momona ʻoe? ʻO nā peʻa a pau he deformed. " a i ʻole: "ʻAʻole maikaʻi nā peʻa, akā inā e mare ʻoe? A inā pono ʻoe e ʻaʻahu i kahi lole nani me kēia hoʻolālā āpau, pehea ʻoe e hana ai? "
ʻAʻole lawa ka ʻūhū huhū e hoʻopau i kēlā mau manaʻo. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, pinepine pinepine lākou, me he wahine lā kuleana a me ke kuleana e nani mau e like me ka canon maʻamau, me he mea lā he koi ka nani. A ʻo wai ka manaʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka peʻa i koʻu wā ʻelemakule, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o koʻu ʻili XNUMX inā haʻi ia i kaʻu moʻolelo, ʻeā?
Akā naʻe, maopopo iaʻu ka manaʻo o nā makuahine. Hoʻomaopopo loa wau i kēia a noʻonoʻo pehea wau e hana ai inā loaʻa iaʻu kahi keiki a haʻi mai ʻo ia iaʻu makemake ʻo ia i kahi peʻa (a i ʻole ua loaʻa iā ia kekahi). ʻO wau, he mea aloha i nā peʻa, maʻa i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou, ʻaʻole ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona stereotypical o nā lawehala, pehea wau e hana ai?
A e akahele, i loko o kēia mau kumu aʻu e kamaʻilio nei noʻu iho, ka mea i hala lōʻihi ma nā puka kupua o ke kanaka makua. No ka mea, ʻaʻohe o kou mau makahiki, 16 a i ʻole 81, he kuleana mau nā makuahine e haʻi i ko lākou manaʻo a hoʻoikaika iki iā mākou.
A inā e ʻae ʻia iaʻu e hoʻopau i hoʻokahi ʻoiaʻiʻo liʻiliʻi hou aʻe, pololei ʻo Māmā i nā hihia he nui: ʻehia ka nui o nā peʻa ʻino, hana ʻia ma 17, inu ʻia i loko o kahi haʻahaʻa a i loko o kahi lumi lepo o kahi hoaaloha, hiki ke pale ʻia inā ua hoʻolohe kekahi i kēlā. ka inaina o ke kanaka. kaikamahine. Makuahine?
Puna o nā kiʻi o nā kiʻi peʻa: Pūnaewele o ka mea pena ʻo Fabio Viale.
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