130 mau manaʻo a me nā peʻa no ka makuahine a me ke kaikamahine
Nā mea:
ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa ka loaʻa ʻana o nā peʻa wahine i kēia mau lā. He kuleana ko nā kāne ʻelua e hōʻike iā lākou iho e like me ko lākou makemake. Inā ʻo ka peʻa kahi ala e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe iho, pono ʻoe e hana. Ua ʻoi aku ka hoʻomanawanui ʻana o ka lehulehu i ka poʻe e ʻaʻahu nei i nā peʻa, no laila ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i ka stigmatized.
ʻO ka pinepine, loaʻa nā wahine i nā peʻa me kā lākou hoa. Akā i kēia lā, ua kaulana loa nā peʻa makuahine a me nā kaikamahine ma nā wahi like ʻole o ka honua. Ua hoʻomaka kēia ʻano ma ʻAmelika i ka makahiki 2015 a ʻaʻole like ia e nalo koke. Inā ʻaʻohe āu i loaʻa, e kamaʻilio me kou makuahine a e kipa i nā studio e koho i ka mea kūpono iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole naʻe i wehewehe maopopo ʻia ka pilina kumu, akā ua ʻike ka poʻe i loaʻa i kēia ʻano peʻa i ka piʻi ʻana o ko lākou pilina ma waena o ka makuahine a me ke kaikamahine. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu mau genes me kou makuahine?
ʻO ke ʻano o ka peʻa makuahine-kaikamahine
Hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā peʻa ʻē aʻe, peʻa ʻoi aku ka hohonu o ka manaʻo o nā makuahine a me nā kaikamahine ma mua o ka makuahine a me ke keiki wale nō. ʻAʻohe ʻano o ka hoʻolālā peʻa, ʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa iā ia kahi leka aloha mai nā wahine ʻelua.
I ka wā lōʻihi, ua hana nui kou makuahine iā ʻoe, a i kekahi manawa e pili ana i ka hoʻololi ʻana i kona hauʻoli ponoʻī. ʻO ka makuahine wale nō ke kanaka ma ka honua e lilo i hoaaloha maikaʻi loa a me ke kōkua kūpaʻa loa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kou mahalo no nā mea a pau āna i hana ai no ʻoe ma nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻO kekahi o lākou e hana i nā mea a pau e hoʻokokoke aku ai iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka ma ka hana ʻana i nā peʻa like e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe kekahi i kekahi inā ʻoe e kaʻawale.
Nā ʻano peʻa makuahine a me ke kaikamahine
ʻOkoʻa nā peʻa makuahine a me ke kaikamahine ma muli o nā ʻono a me nā makemake o kēlā me kēia tandem ʻohana. Inā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o ka poʻe me ka makuahine ʻoluʻolu, e loaʻa paha ʻoe i nā hoʻolālā i hoʻoikaika ʻia e nā kiʻi o kēia wā. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā he conservative liʻiliʻi kou makuahine akā makemake mau e kiʻi i kahi peʻa me ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i kahi hoʻolālā maʻalahi a maʻamau.
Eia kekahi o nā peʻa makuahine a me ke kaikamahine maikaʻi loa āu e ʻike ai i kēia manawa:
1. Nā ʻōlelo huaʻōlelo
Hana pinepine ʻia kēia ʻano peʻa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke koho i nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo āu e makemake ai e hoʻohana i kāu hoʻolālā. Ke koho nei ʻoe i ke kikokikona no kāu hoʻolālā peʻa, e ʻoi aku ka pilikino. He ala maikaʻi loa ia e hoʻokokoke aku ai kekahi i kekahi me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo leo nui. Ma waena o nā kikokikona tattoo maikaʻi loa a mākou e ʻike ai:
- Kona makuahine (ka peʻa makuahine); ʻO kāna kaikamahine (ka peʻa kaikamahine )
- Me he makuahine lā, me he kaikamahine lā
- ʻO ʻoe koʻu mau ʻēheu (ka peʻa makuahine); ʻO ʻoe koʻu heleuma (peʻa kaikamahine)
- Ma hea ʻoe e lawe ai iaʻu alakaʻi (tattoo of a girl); E hahai au iā ʻoe (ka peʻa makuahine)
- E aloha mau aku au ia oe; Aloha mau wau iā 'oe
2. He makuahine me hoʻokahi keiki.
ʻO ka "Mothers with Children" he poʻomanaʻo punahele no nā mea pena kiʻi, a ʻoi aku hoʻi nā mea pena kiʻi o nā manawa āpau. He kiʻi ʻoluʻolu kēia e hoʻoluliluli ai ka makuahine i kāna pēpē. Hōʻike kēia i ke aloha o ka makuahine i kāna ʻānela liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻohe kiʻi maikaʻi aʻe no ka makuahine a me kāna kaikamahine. No kou makuahine, e lilo ana ʻoe i ʻānela liʻiliʻi maikaʻi, ʻoiai ʻo kou mau makahiki. Ma ke ʻano he mahalo i ke aloha ʻole o kou makuahine, hiki iā ʻolua ke loaʻa i kēia peʻa i kēia lā.
3. Aloha pau ole
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke aloha o ka makuahine i kāna kaikamahine. ʻO ka maʻamau, makemake nā makuahine e nalowale i nā mea āpau i mea e ola ai ke keiki. Hōʻike maoli kēia peʻa aloha infinity i ke aloha mau o ka makuahine i kāna kaikamahine. He mea maʻalahi paha kēia hoʻolālā ma waho, akā ʻo ke ʻano o kēia hoʻolālā peʻa e ʻōlelo i nā mea āpau e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana i ka paʻa paʻa ʻole i waena o ʻoe a me kou makuahine.
4. ʻO ka clover like ʻole.
ʻO Clover (a ʻo ia hoʻi ka clover lau ʻehā) he hōʻailona maikaʻi. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia peʻa me kou makuahine, makemake ʻoe iā ia i ka maikaʻi loa. ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi aʻe ma mua o ke keiki e makemake ana e hauʻoli kona makuahine no ke ola. Ma hope o nā mōhai a pau a kou makuahine i hana ai, ʻo ia ka manawa e hauʻoli ai i ke ola me ʻoe. E hana hou i nā hoʻomanaʻo hauʻoli me ka makuahine a loaʻa iā ʻoe iho kēia peʻa hauʻoli i mea hoʻomanaʻo.
5. Na niho Liona
ʻO kēia kekahi peʻa makuahine a me ke kaikamahine kaulana loa. ʻO nā niho liona nā pua nani i makemake nui ʻia e nā wahine a pau. He pua palupalu a palupalu e wehe ana ia ia iho ke pa mai ka makani ikaika. ʻO nā niho o ka liona he hōʻailona o ka haʻaheo, naʻauao, resonance, ulu, kūpaʻa, maʻemaʻe, ho'ōla, a me nā hoʻomaka hou. Ma muli o kēia mau manaʻo, ua hoʻohana nui ʻia nā niho liona i nā peʻa makuahine a me nā kaikamahine.
ʻO ka maʻamau, kau ʻia kahi pua piha (me kahi ʻōpala a me ke poʻo) ma ka lima hoʻokahi (hiki ke lilo i makuahine a kaikamahine paha), aʻo ka lima ʻē aʻe he mau hua niho liʻiliʻi wale nō - nā puke comic e pili ana i nā liona. Ke kau ʻia nā lima ma kahi ʻaoʻao, ua like ia me ka niho liona e luli ana i ka makani.
Ka helu ʻana i nā kumukūʻai a me nā kumukūʻai maʻamau
Hoʻolimalima pinepine ka mea pena i ka uku peʻa - hoʻokahi no ʻoe, hoʻokahi no kou makuahine. No ka mea makemake ʻoe i nā hoʻolālā kūpono, pono ʻoe e uku pālua i ka nui maʻamau. Eia nō naʻe, aia nā studio e hāʻawi i nā uku i nā tandem makuahine a me ke kaikamahine e ʻimi nei e kiʻi i kēia ʻano peʻa. ʻO ka maʻamau o kēia mau studio e uku i ke kumukūʻai like no nā peʻa ʻelua. E ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o kēia kumukūʻai ma mua o ke kumukūʻai o kahi hoʻolālā hoʻokahi, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka uku ʻana i ʻelua mau peʻa ʻokoʻa.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i nā peʻa hoʻohālikelike no € 75 (kūʻai liʻiliʻi), ma muli o ka paʻakikī o ka hoʻolālā. Inā ua koho ʻoe i kahi hoʻolālā paʻakikī, pono paha ʻoe e uku i 300 euros no nā koho ʻelua.
ʻO kekahi mau mea pena kiʻi (ʻo ka mea maʻamau a kaulana) e uku iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia hola o ka hana. No laila, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o kāu kiʻi ʻana, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ke kumukūʻai, no ka mea pono e lawe i nā hola he nui. ʻO kēia ke kumu he mea nui e noʻonoʻo i ke kumukūʻai o kahi peʻa i ka wā o ka hoʻolālā.
¿Hoʻonoho kūpono?
Hiki iā ʻoe ke kau maoli i ka peʻa makuahine a me ke kaikamahine ma nā wahi āpau. Eia naʻe, nui ka poʻe me kēia peʻa e koho e waiho i kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke hōʻike. Pono ʻoe e haʻaheo i kāu mau peʻa like a kau iā lākou i ʻike nā kānaka a pau. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau makuahine a me kāna kaikamahine e makemake i kā lākou mau peʻa e lilo i mea pilikino e like me ka hiki (a noho wale ma waena). ʻO ke kau ʻana o nā hoʻolālā kūpono e hilinaʻi loa ia i kāu makemake.
No nā peʻa e like me nā niho liona a i ʻole nā pelelele pili, ʻo ka lima kahi koho maikaʻi. Ma laila, e ʻike hou ʻia kāu peʻa. Ke kau ʻoe i kou lima ma ka ʻaoʻao o kou makuahine, e hoʻokō nā hoʻolālā i kekahi i kekahi. He mea kēia e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻike aku i kāu mau hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe.
Aia kekahi mau makuahine a me nā kaikamahine makemake e hoʻopaʻa i ko lākou mau wāwae. He wahi maikaʻi hoʻi ia e kiʻi ai i ka peʻa - a ʻoi aku ka pilina ma mua o nā lima.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka hoʻomākaukau no kahi kau tattoo
Ke hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi peʻa no ka hoʻolālā ʻana o kou makuahine a me kāu kaikamahine, he mea nui e koho pono iā ia. ʻOiai he nui nā ʻano hoʻolālā makuahine a me ke kaikamahine, pono ʻoe e koho i kahi e hōʻike maoli i kou manaʻo no kekahi.
Inā makemake ʻoe e haʻi i kou makuahine e lilo mau ʻo ia i meʻe nou, pono ʻoe e koho i kahi hoʻolālā e haʻi i kēlā memo.
Ke koho ʻana i kahi hoʻolālā tattoo, mai poina e nīnau i kou makuahine no ka ʻōlelo aʻo. No ka mea e koho ʻolua i kahi hoʻolālā kūpono, e hoʻolohe i kā lāua ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā manaʻo. Pono ʻoe e ʻimi i kahi hoʻolālā e kūpono iā ʻoe a hōʻike iā ʻolua ʻelua.
He mea koʻikoʻi loa ke koho ʻana o ka mea pena e kiʻi i ka peʻa. He mea maopopo ke ʻimi nei ʻoe i kahi mea pena kiʻi ʻaʻole nui loa, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻae i ke kumukūʻai e hoʻololi i ka maikaʻi o kāu mau peʻa. No ka mea paʻa mau ka peʻa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka peʻa e like me ka hiki i ʻole ʻoe e mihi ma hope.
Ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia ʻano peʻa, e nīnau i kou makuahine inā hiki iā ia ke ʻae i ka hana. Inā ʻo kēia kou manawa mua e hui pū ai, e hoʻomanaʻo he mea ʻeha iki kēia. E hōʻoia ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo kou makuahine.
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo lawelawe
Ke paʻi ʻoe i kou makuahine a me kāu kaikamahine ponoʻī, e pōʻino maoli kou ʻili. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hele mai kēia mau ʻeha ma waena ou a me kāu hoʻolālā nani, a laila pono ʻoe e makaʻala loa i kēia wahi.
E ʻoki mālie i ka peʻa ma hope o kekahi mau hola a pono e lawa nā hola 3-4. Ma ka akahele, ke manaʻo nei mākou e palaki i kēia wahi me kou mau lima, e pale aku i ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi holoi holoi a i ʻole nā mīkina lima exfoliating āpau. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka wai mehana e palupalu ai ka ʻili. E hoʻohana mau i kahi kopa antibacterial mālie. Ma hope o 10-15 mau lā, hiki ke hōʻike ʻia kāu peʻa i ka honua.
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