He aha kā Disney e hōʻike mai ai iā mākou e pili ana i nā ʻuhane ʻohana?

'Ōlelo nā kānaka a pau he mea kūponoʻole ke aloha i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni Disney a ua hana paha i nā manaʻo kūponoʻole i ka pilina o nā mea a pau i ulu pū me lākou. Akā, ʻaʻole anei mākou e poina e pili ana i ka ʻeha a me ka hana keaka e pono ai kā lākou mau kiʻi e hele ai i mea e hui pū ai?

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni Disney e hoʻopau me ka huaʻōlelo "a ua noho hauʻoli lākou ma hope", ʻaʻole paha he ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā e ʻimi kākou i ke ʻano o kēia mau kiʻiʻoniʻoni.

Pono nā kamāliʻiwahine Disney e hele i kekahi ʻano trauma a i ʻole hanana hoʻololi i ke ola i mea e hālāwai ai me kā lākou aliʻi a i ʻole "soulmate".

Pono nō hoʻi kēlā me kēia aliʻi e hakakā i kāna mau daimonio ponoʻī i mea e noho pū ai me kāna aliʻi wahine a i ʻole "soulmate".

E lawe kākou iā Snow White no ka laʻana. He mea pōʻino paha ʻo ia i hālāwai ai me kāna "aliʻi" i ka holo ʻana mai kona makuahine hānai i makemake e pepehi iā ia?

A i ʻole ʻo Ariel mai The Little Mermaid. Pono ʻo ia e hoʻohana i nā lawelawe a kahi wahine kilokilo a haʻalele i nā mea āpau āna i ʻike ai i mea e hālāwai ai me kāna "soulmate".

Cinderella (2), choreography na Frederic Ashton, Polish National Ballet, kiʻi: Ewa Krasutskaya TW-ON]]

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka pilina me kou hoa aloha. ʻAʻole lākou a pau he mau moʻolelo maikaʻi loa, ʻo ka maʻamau he mau hoʻāʻo paʻakikī ke hele mākou i kahi loli radical i ke ola. Kōkua lākou iā mākou e hoʻokuʻu a ʻike i ko mākou mau daimonio i loko e loaʻa ai ka maluhia i loko o mākou iho.

Inā ʻoe e nānā i ka kiʻiʻoniʻoni Disney holoʻokoʻa ma ke ʻano he mea hoʻohālikelike, aia kekahi mau hanana e pono e hoʻololi ʻia, a laila nā manawa o ka haunaele a me ka hoʻololi ʻana, a laila, ma hope o ka lanakila ʻana i nā mea āpau, hiki ke hui pū nā ʻuhane.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua pena ʻo Disney i ka pilina ma ke ʻano he pilina aloha make, akā i kēia manawa hauʻoli i ka hui ʻana o nā poʻe āu e aloha ai ma hope o nā mea a lākou i hele ai, ʻo ia paha.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka "hauʻoli mau loa" he kikoʻī, akā inā ʻoe e hoʻi i ka laʻana metaphorical, e ʻike ʻoe ʻo "hauʻoli a lōʻihi" ka manaʻo i loaʻa iā ʻoe ma hope o ka hoʻololi piha ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana, a ma laila ʻelua hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ko lākou ʻano maoli.

ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻia ka pilina me kāu poʻe koʻikoʻi no ka hele wāwae hauʻoli i ka paka i nā manawa a pau. ʻO ke ʻano maoli o ka hoa ʻuhane, ʻo ia ke hoʻāla iā ʻoe a wehe iā ʻoe i nā iwi ʻole e hoʻolilo i kou ʻuhane i mea maikaʻi loa. Ua hoʻouna ʻia kahi hoa ʻuhane e lawe mai i kāu mau ʻeke a me nā nāwaliwali āpau i hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokuʻu iā ia a pili pū me ʻoe maoli, hoʻopili me kou ikaika ponoʻī.

I ka hiki ʻana mai i nā ʻuhane ʻuhane ʻē aʻe a mākou e hālāwai ai ma ke ala, aia ʻekolu mau ʻano like ʻole:

Soul Hoa #1 he aniani maa mau. Ua like ia me ʻoe a hōʻike i nā mea āpau e pili ana iā ʻoe. Hoʻouna ʻia kēia ʻano hoa ʻuhane e kōkua i ka ʻike ʻana i nā ʻano pilikino like ʻole a me nā hemahema āu e pono ai e hana. ʻO ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe i kāu hoa, he mea ia e pono ai ʻoe e hana iā ʻoe iho. Hōʻike ʻia nā pilikia o kēia mau ʻano pilina e hōʻike i kou nāwaliwali a hoʻololi iā lākou i mau ikaika.

ʻO Soul Mate #2 kou kūʻē piha Aia ʻo yin i kāu yang a hoʻouna ʻia e kōkua i ke kaulike ʻana i kou ikaika a hōʻike iā ʻoe i kēlā ʻaoʻao o ke ola. ʻO kēia mau ʻano pilina he mea pahū pinepine no ka mea e koi ana lākou i ka hoʻomanawanui, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, a me ke ʻano aʻo e ʻae a mahalo i nā ʻokoʻa o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka hoʻolālā maikaʻi loa i loko o ia pilina, ʻo ia ka nānā ʻana i kāu hoʻomohala ʻana i mea e loaʻa ai ka lokahi a me ka maluhia.

ʻO Soul Mate #3 kāu Twin Flame - ke ʻano o "soulmates". ʻO ke kumumanaʻo ʻo ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o kou ʻuhane i ʻelua mau ikaika, a ʻo ka hui ʻana i kahi Twin Flame e like me ka hui hou ʻana o nā ikaika ʻelua. ʻOiai he mea aloha loa ia, pono kēia pilina i ka ho'ōla a me ka ulu ʻuhane. Hoʻohui pinepine ʻia nā lua ahi e lawelawe i kahi kumu nui aʻe. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole pili ko lākou pilina i kēlā me kēia kanaka, akā no ka hana pū ʻana e kākoʻo i kahi kumu honua.

ʻAʻole pili i ke ʻano o ka pilina ʻuhane āu e noho nei, ua like ka manaʻo. Hoʻouna ʻia nā hoa ʻuhane e kōkua iā ʻoe e launa hou me kou ʻuhane, ke Akua a me ke aloha. Hoʻouna ʻia nā Soulmates e kōkua iā ʻoe e lilo i ʻano maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe iho i hiki ai i kou ʻuhane ke ulu i ka ʻike.

Hiki i kāu mea nui ke lilo i hoa ola nou? ʻO ka pane ʻoiaʻiʻo! Akā ʻo ka maʻamau, aia kekahi mau haʻawina nui a i ʻole pilikia e lanakila mua ai.

Ke hoʻi nei i ka hoʻohālikelike Disney, ua lanakila ʻo Snow White i kona makuahine hānai e hoʻāʻo nei e pepehi iā ia, pono ʻo Sleeping Beauty e kū i kona "hopena", pono ʻo Cinderella e kāhea aku i ke Akua e kōkua iā ia e hele a hiki i kona hiki maoli, etc. a pela aku. etc.

ʻO ke aloha i kāu mea koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole ia he pōʻino wale nō, aia nō nā manawa kupanaha, a inā ʻoe e wehe i ka hana a me kou ulu ʻana, ʻaʻohe kumu e hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke ola hauʻoli ma hope.