Nā Aʻoaʻo Ola: 10 o 20 mau lula e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike!

Loaʻa i ke ola kona mau lula ponoʻī, no laila e ʻike pono ʻoe iā lākou. Me ka ʻike ʻole o nā lula, ua like ka noho ʻana me ka kipa ʻana me ka palapala ʻāina ʻole - ʻae, hiki nō, akā, ʻo ka coincidence ka mea e hiki mai ana. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea āu i makemake ai e ʻike, akā nalo paha ʻoe i ka hapa nui o nā mākaʻikaʻi.

Aia ma lalo iho he 10 o nā lula 20 ma ka honua - me kēia alakaʻi e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maikaʻi o kou ola.

Kumu 1: Aia ke ola i nā ʻike

ʻO ke ola e pili ana i ka ʻike. ʻO nā kūlana a pau o ke ola, ʻo ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi ʻole, he mau kūlana e pono ai ke ʻike. ʻO nā manaʻo āpau e hele pū me lākou he waiwai nui, no laila mai hōʻole ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. Noho ʻoluʻolu i kēlā me kēia kūlana, no ka mea pono e ʻae ʻia a ʻae ʻia nā mea a pau no ko lākou ʻano. Aia ke kānāwai o ka paʻa ʻana i kou mau lima a me kou mau wāwae e ʻoi aku ka ʻeha. inā makemake ʻoe e aʻo pehea e hana ai i nā haunaele i kou ola,. No laila, ʻaʻohe mea ʻino a me ka ʻeha o ka ʻike, e hele i loko me ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo - he ʻike ʻē aʻe ia e hoʻohui ʻia i ka hōʻiliʻili o nā ʻike e ola ai.

Rula 2: ʻAʻohe hemahema, hoʻāʻo wale nō

Ke nānā mākou i ke ola kino, maʻalahi loa ke hāʻule i kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa. A laila nalowale mākou i ko mākou mamao a nānā i ke ola ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. Akā ke ʻae mākou iā mākou iho e hoʻihoʻi i ka noʻonoʻo, ʻike ʻia ka loli o ka manaʻo - a nui loa. ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona ākea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi honua ʻokoʻa loa. A ʻo kēia ke ʻano o kā mākou ʻike pinepine ʻana i nā hemahema a me nā hewa - lawe mākou iā lākou ponoʻī, a lawa ka nānā ʻana iā lākou mai waho aku, e ʻae ʻo ia, no ka mea he ʻāpana lākou o ka ʻike (e nānā i ka lula 1) a mālama iā lākou e like me he hoao. . He nani ke ola me ka ʻole o ka manaʻo ʻole! E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻohe hemahema, aia nā hoʻāʻo.

Rula 3: ʻO kou kino kou home

Ke iho mai kou ʻuhane i ka honua, loaʻa iā ia ke kino kino e noho ai. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he ʻano hōkele kēia, ke ʻano o ka lawe ʻana a i ʻole "ʻaʻahu" wale nō no ka ʻuhane. E aloha iā lākou a ʻaʻole paha, e hoʻololi kou ʻuhane iā lākou me kahi ʻē aʻe ke make ʻoe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopiʻi i kou kino a hoʻopailua iā ʻoe iho, akā ʻaʻole ia e hoʻololi i kekahi mea. Eia naʻe, uaʻaeʻo ia i kāna "ʻaʻahu", e hōʻike ana iā ia i ka mahalo a me ke aloha, ua hoʻololiʻia nā mea a pau. ʻO ke kino no ka ʻike ʻana i ke ola a me ka hōʻiliʻili ʻana i nā hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e aloha a hoʻomaopopo pū me ia. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hana ai, e mahalo iā lākou, e like me kou home.

Rula 4: Hoʻomau ʻia ka haʻawina a hiki i kou aʻo ʻana

I kekahi manawa o kou ola, hiki ke hana hou ka mōʻaukala. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike iā ia iho ma kēlā me kēia pae, ʻoiai ʻo ke kumuhana o ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine ke alakaʻi mau nei i ka loiloi. ʻO nā kāne / wahine āu e hālāwai ai ma ke ala he kope-paʻi ʻia mai nā pilina ma mua. Hoʻomaka like a like - hiki ʻoe i kahi e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke wānana me ka pololei kupaianaha i ka wā e kumakaia ai kāu hoaaloha hou/kāu hoaaloha hou iā ʻoe. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kahi hiʻohiʻona i kou ola, ʻo ia ka mea pono ʻoe e hana i kahi haʻawina - e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu mea e hana ai a me ka mea e nānā aku ai i mea e hemo ai i waho o ke kumu.

Rula 5: He mau aniani mākou 

Loaʻa iā mākou nā mea a pau a mākou e ʻike ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe ma mua o nā mea i ʻike ʻia e mākou mai kā mākou ʻike ponoʻī. ʻAʻole mākou ʻike iā lākou no ka mea ʻaʻole mākou ʻike iā lākou, no laila ʻaʻole mākou e kākau inoa.

ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka ko mākou noʻonoʻo. ʻO nā mea a pau e hoʻonāukiuki iāʻoe i loko o kekahi kanaka e hoʻonāukiuki iāʻoe iho. ʻO ka inaina a aloha i nā ʻano pilikino, ʻo ia ka inaina a aloha iā ʻoe iho. ʻOiai inā ʻoe e hōʻole i ka ʻike mua ʻana, aia nō ia no ʻoe, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae a ʻaʻole paha. He mea pono ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia a hoʻomaha no ka manawa e huli alani ai ko mākou mau manaʻo: ʻo ka manawa, pehea wau e hana ai i kēia?

Rula 6: Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea āu e pono ai

He mea kupaianaha ke ola no ka mea e hāʻawi mau iā mākou i nā mea pono āpau a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻokō ai i ke kūlana ola a mākou e noho nei. ʻO ka pilikia, i kekahi manawa paʻakikī ke ʻike i nā koho a me nā puka pilikia. Ke ʻae ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e hoʻopili ʻia i ka hemahema, i ka wā e noho aliʻi ai ka makaʻu a me ke kaumaha, ʻaʻohe ala āu e ʻimi ai i kahi hopena - pani ʻoe iā ʻoe iho mai nā hōʻailona āpau o ka hopena. Eia naʻe, ke lawe ʻoe i ka hanu hohonu a nānā a puni, e ʻike ʻoe aia ka hopena ma kahi o ke kihi. ʻAʻohe makaʻu! ʻO ka maluhia wale nō e hoʻopakele iā mākou. Makemake au e hoʻohui i kēia hele pū me ka mamao.

Rula 7: No ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe i ke aloha i loko ou.

Inā ʻaʻohe ou aloha, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike pehea e mālama ai a pehea e hōʻike ai. Pono ke aloha maoli i kumu o ke aloha pono'ī a me ke aloha i ke ao nei. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe aloha iā ʻoe iho, ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ke aloha iā ʻoe iho a ʻaʻole makemake ʻoe i ke ola, a laila e hala ke aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo - e kali ia a ʻike ʻoe i ke ʻano o ke aloha.

Rula 8: E hopohopo wale i ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomalu

ʻO nā mea āu i manaʻole ai - mai hopohopo! ʻO ka mea nui no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea e pili ana i ia mea, akā hoʻopau wale i ka ikehu hiki ke kuhikuhi ʻia i kahi mea ʻokoʻa loa. Ke hopohopo ʻoe i nā mea āu e hoʻomalu ai, e makaʻala hoʻi - ʻo ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana, ka ʻōhumu a me ke kaumaha ka mea ʻino loa e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kāu mālama ikehu. E kuhikuhi iā ia i ka hana a me ka hoʻoponopono pilikia.

Rula 9: Makemake Kuokoa

Loaʻa iā mākou ka manaʻo kūʻokoʻa, akā hāʻule mākou iā mākou iho i loko o nā hīnaʻi gula i hoʻomākaukau ʻia no mākou e nā ʻōnaehana, nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, nā manaʻolana a i ʻole nā ​​palena o ko mākou poʻo. Ke hoʻomaka mākou e ʻike i kēia kumu kumu o ke ola ma ka honua, ʻike ʻia ka nui o nā nīnau hōʻoluʻolu a mākou e maʻa ai, hiki iā mākou ke hōʻole wale. ʻO ka kaupalena ʻana i kou kūʻokoʻa ponoʻī a i ʻole ke kūʻokoʻa o kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe he uhaki i nā lula o kēia pāʻani.

Rula 10: Ka hopena

Ma mua o ka iho ʻana i ka honua, ua hana ka Soul i kahi hoʻolālā kikoʻī no ka hoʻomohala ʻuhane, kahi e makemake ai e hoʻokō i kēia ola. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāna maalea, ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻolālā kikoʻī, aia pū kekahi hoʻolālā contingency a me kahi hoʻolālā liʻiliʻi inā ʻoi aku ka makemake o ka papahana ma mua o kāna mea kākau. Aloha mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia hopena, a hōʻike ka hopena iā ia iho i ka ʻike ʻana o nā poʻe i loko o ko mākou ola (me ka mea, ma ke ala, ua ʻae mākou e hana i kēia ola) a me nā kūlana, a pinepine hoʻi i ke ʻano o nā coincidences a me nā pōʻino. . aia mākou ma kahi hoʻokahi a ʻaʻole ma kahi ʻē. Ma o kēia, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i nā manaʻo like ʻole, aʻo i nā haʻawina, a kaulike i ka ikehu a mākou e ʻaiʻē ai i kahi incarnation mua. ʻO Fate kahi kāleka i kou mau lima, a me nā manawa kūpono a me nā talena (nā mea i kapa ʻia nā mea hana). Aia iā ʻoe ke ʻae iā ʻoe iho e lawe ʻia e ka huakaʻi, e hahai i ke ala i hōʻailona ʻia, a i ʻole e hoʻopaʻa i ke kāleka i kahi pōpō paʻa a hoʻolei ma hope ou. ʻAe... loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manaʻo kūʻokoʻa.

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