ʻO ke kāne noʻonoʻo - he aha ia, hoʻokumu kāne kāne

Me he mea lā hoʻokahi kā mākou kāne - wahine, kāne. ʻAʻole maopopo loa kēia māhele maʻalahi ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe e ʻike ka poʻe noiʻi i ka nui o nā kāne he ʻumi!

Loaʻa iā mākou kēlā me kēia: chromosomal (genotypic) sex, gonadal sex, intragenital sex, external genital sex, phenotypic, hormonal, metabolic, social, brain and psychological sex.

1. Ke kāne noʻonoʻo - he aha ia?

Hoʻokumu ʻia ke kāne noʻonoʻo, ke kāne, e ke kaiāulu a me ka moʻomeheu ʻike kāne kāne. Wahi a ka World Health Organization, ʻo ia nā kuleana, nā ʻano, nā hana a me nā ʻano i hana ʻia e ke kaiāulu i manaʻo ʻia e kēia ʻahahui he kūpono no nā kāne a me nā wahine. Hoʻohana ʻia nā huaʻōlelo "kāne" a me "femininity" e wehewehe i nā waiwai a me nā ʻano pili i ke kāne e ʻike ʻia e like me nā stereotypes. Ua aʻo nā kānaka a pau i ka wā kamaliʻi i ka wehewehe ʻana o ka wahine a me ke kāne i loko o kahi hui i hāʻawi ʻia - pehea ke ʻano o ka wahine a i ʻole ke kāne, he aha ka ʻoihana e koho ai, etc. ʻoe iho a me ka honua.

2. Ke kāne noʻonoʻo - hoʻomohala kāne

ʻO ka leo "he kaikamahine" a "he keikikāne" i ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki hiki ke lawe ʻia ma ke ʻano he hoʻomaka o ka hopena o ke kaiapuni. Mai kēia manawa, hānai ʻia ke keiki e like me nā kūlana o ke kāne a me ka wahine i ʻae ʻia i ke kaiapuni. E ʻaʻahu ʻia nā kaikamāhine i ka ʻulaʻula, nā keikikāne i ka uliuli. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole kūʻokoʻa ke keiki hānau hou, ʻaʻole hoʻoholo ka hopena o ke kaiapuni e ʻike ai i ke keiki hou he kanaka pili i ka wahine like. Hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā palena o ka ʻike ma ke ʻano.

Kaapuni Kaapuni hoʻomaka lākou e hana ma hope koke o ka hānau ʻana, ma muli o nā mea ʻē aʻe, ma nā ʻike. ʻOiai e hana ana nā mea a pau i nā manaʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke kāne a i ʻole ka wahine no kā lākou hoʻohana ponoʻī ʻana, ua hoʻoikaika nui ʻia kēia mau hiʻohiʻona e ka nohona kaiaulu. ʻOiai ma o nā pāʻani a mākou e hāʻawi nei i nā keiki, aʻo mākou iā lākou i kekahi mau kuleana a me nā pilina. Ma ka pāʻani ʻana me nā pēpē ma ka home, ʻike nā kaikamahine ʻo kā lākou kuleana ka mea mua a me ka mea nui e mālama i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. No nā keikikāne, hāʻawi ʻia nā pāʻani e pili ana i ka ʻimi ākea a i ʻole ka hoʻoponopono pilikia (nā pāʻani kaua, ka wehe ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea hana). Manaʻo ʻia lākou ma kahi o 5 mau makahiki. ʻike kāne kāne he ano maoli kona. Inā ma mua, ma ka pae intrauterine, aia kekahi mau pilikia i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka wahine, a laila i loko o kēia wā koʻikoʻi lākou e hoʻoikaika a nāwaliwali paha. Ma kahi o 5 mau makahiki, komo nā keiki i kahi kahua i kapa ʻia ʻo "developmental sexism", e hōʻike ana iā ia iho i ka pāʻani ʻana me nā keiki o ka wahine like, ke koho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, nā pāʻani i hāʻawi ʻia i kēia kāne. ʻO ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻike kāne kāne a me ka wahine, a me ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana, e holomua ana i ke kaʻina hana o ka hoʻonaʻauao, pono e hoʻonui mālie i ka wā ʻōpio, a hiki i ka makahiki o ke kanaka makua. Hoʻopili ʻia lākou me nā pūʻulu o nā ʻano a me nā repertoires o ka ʻano i pili i nā kāne a wahine paha. Pono ke kanaka maoli e kūʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole i manaʻo nui, kūpaʻa, ikaika, mana aupuni. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i ka wahine i kā mākou moʻomeheu he aloha, mālama, hoʻolohe, hoʻolaʻa iā ia iho, kōkua, a mālama. Manaʻo ʻia ke kaikamahine e hahai i kēia ʻano. Aia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona maʻamau i nā kāne a i ʻole nā ​​​​wahine, akā ʻaʻohe ʻano noʻonoʻo e hiki ke hoʻopili wale ʻia i ka wahine hoʻokahi.

ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻoholo me ka pololei ʻepekema i ka "maʻamau kāne" a i ʻole "maʻamau wahine". ʻAʻole paha mākou e kaupalena i ka hōʻike ʻana iā mākou iho i ka "kāne" a i ʻole "wahine"? He mea maʻalahi nā stereotypes, me ke kāne, i kekahi manawa ʻo ka paʻakikī o ka hahai ʻana i ke kumu hoʻohālike e lawe mai i ka ʻeha nui. ʻAʻole hui like nā wahine, e like me nā kāne, he kanaka hoʻokahi a he kuleana ko kēlā me kēia i kona ala ponoʻī. ʻAʻole ʻae ka nui o nā wahine i ka ʻōlelo ʻo ka manaʻo wale nō o ko lākou ola ke mālama i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike iā lākou iho he nāwaliwali loa, passive, a maikaʻi paha i ke kūlana alakaʻi, komo i ka politika, a i ʻole e hoʻoholo i ko lākou ola ponoʻī.

E hauʻoli i nā lawelawe lapaʻau me ka laina ʻole. E hoʻopaʻa manawa me kahi loea me ka e-prescription a me ka e-certificate a i ʻole kahi hoʻokolokolo ma abcHealth E ʻimi i ke kauka.

ʻatikala i loiloi ʻia e kekahi loea:

Monsignor Anna Golan

Kauka hoʻonaʻauao, hoʻopaʻa kino.