Nā mākua o nā keiki kāne male kāne - Nā mākua o nā kāne kāne a me nā kāne male kāne (VIDEO)

I ka ʻike ʻana o nā mākua kāne kāne a male kāne e pili ana i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana o kā lākou mau keiki, hoʻomaka lākou e haʻalulu. ʻAʻole pili inā ʻo ke keiki ponoʻī i haʻi i kona male kāne a i ʻole ka makua i ʻike ʻole ʻia e pili ana iā ia. Hoʻomaka nā mākua e ʻimi i nā kumu o kēia - hoʻopiʻi lākou iā lākou iho a i ʻole ke kaiapuni o ke keiki. Hoʻopiʻi pinepine lākou i nā hoaaloha o ke keiki he "kuhi hewa". ʻO ka manaʻo "ua hewa kekahi" mai nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo kahiko e hoʻohuli ai nā mākua i ka moe kolohe o kā lākou mau keiki. ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻia he ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia mau manaʻo.

ʻO kekahi ʻano hana a nā mākua e aʻo nei e pili ana i ka male kāne o kā lākou keiki, ʻo ia ka hōʻole, ʻaʻole ka ʻae. Hiki i ka makua ke hana i ke keiki e like me ka wā ma mua, me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana he manawa pōkole. Hiki i kēia hōʻole ke lōʻihi no nā makahiki. ʻAʻole hiki i nā mākua kāne male kāne ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke ʻano o kā lākou keiki i kēia kūlana a no laila mehameha loa lākou.

ʻO Anna Golan, sexologist, kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā pilikia o nā mākua kāne male kāne a me nā moʻolelo e pili ana i ka male kāne.