He aha ka manaʻo o ka lole keʻokeʻo ma ka moeʻuhane? E aʻo e pili ana i kāna hōʻailona hoihoi

ʻO kaʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo e pili nui me kaʻaʻahu o ka wahine mare, akāʻo iaʻano weheweheʻana he mea nui loa ia. Makemake ʻoe e ʻike i ka moeʻuhane o ka lole keʻokeʻo? E nānā i kā mākou puke moe.

I kā mākou moʻomeheu, ʻo ke keʻokeʻo ka hōʻailona o ka maʻemaʻe a me ka hala ʻole. Maʻemaʻe maoli - pili me ka sterility o ke ākea - a me ka ʻuhane, i hoʻohana ʻia i nā hana hoʻomana koʻikoʻi, e like me ka bapetizo ʻana, ka hui ʻana a i ʻole ka male ʻana. A pehea kāna wehewehe ʻana 

pili i nā kumu he nui, ma mua o ke kāne a me ke kūlana male o ka mea moeʻuhane. Ināʻaʻohe hoa, akā makemakeʻo ia e loaʻa hoʻokahi a hoʻololi i kona kūlana male, a laila ua maʻalahi nā mea a pau:ʻo kēia ka hoʻokōʻana i nā moeʻuhane i hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo i ka wā ala.

Ke pili ka wahine, akā ma mua o ka male ʻana, hiki i kēlā moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kāna male kokoke. Malia paha, akā ʻaʻole pono! He hōʻailona hoʻi ia e hoʻokipa maikaʻi ʻia ʻo ia i kahi hui hou. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo kahiʻaʻahu nani a maikaʻi loa e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli i ke ola a hōʻike iā ia iho he makuahine a he wahine. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ka pono o ka pilina a me ke aloha.

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He aha inā e moeʻuhane ke kāne? Hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli, no ka mea, he hōʻailona kēia i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi i nā manaʻo ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāna mea aloha. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i hōʻailona subconscious - inā maikaʻi ka pilina - pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e mare.

Inā hiki mai ia i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ka poʻe ke neʻe koke mai, a laila...ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa. Ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o kēlā lā nui i ka noʻonoʻo, aia nā pilikia. E lanakila anei nā kāne ʻōpio e hiki mai ana iā lākou?

He mea hoihoi ia ke moeʻuhane ʻoe i kahi kanaka i hoʻololi lōʻihi i kona kūlana male. ʻAʻohe o ke kāne, hiki ke hauʻoli kēia kanaka. No ia, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane ke ʻano nui o ke kālā. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i nā kūleʻa ʻē aʻe, akā naʻe liʻiliʻi, akā kūpono i ka hoʻolauleʻa.

Akā, inā he haumia a ʻino kekahi, e makaʻala ʻo ia i nā hoaaloha hoʻopunipuni a kū i kekahi pilikia. Hōʻike ka lole haehae iā mākou e hilahila koke mākou i kekahi.

  hōʻailona ko mākou. Aia paha kekahi ʻano o ia mea ʻaʻole mākou makemake e kamaʻilio a noʻonoʻo paha, akā pono ia i kā mākou nānā. A i ʻole, ʻike mākou e pili ana iā ia, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻokō i kā mākou pono. he hōʻailona ia e hoʻolilo nui ana mākou a ua palena kā mākou kālā. Pono kākou e makaʻala i nā mea i loaʻa iā kākou.

He mea nui hoʻi ka mea e komo i ka lole keʻokeʻo i ka moeʻuhane. Inā mākou, a laila maikaʻi. E holomua mākou, a e hoʻokō mākou i kā mākou mau papahana. Eia naʻe, inā ... makemake kekahi e hoʻopilikia i ko mākou kūlana, no ka mea, lili lākou i ko mākou ola. E noʻonoʻo kākou i ka mea hiki iā ia a e hoʻāʻo e pale i kāna mau hana ʻino.

ʻAʻole no ka male wale nō nā lole keʻokeʻo. ʻAi pū nā kaikamāhine iā lākou. ʻO ka mea hea?

ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hala ʻole a me ka maʻemaʻe. He hōʻailona hoʻi ia e kali koke mai ana kekahi hoʻolauleʻa nui iā mākou, hiki ke hoʻopilikia i ke ʻano o ko mākou ola.