Ke moeʻuhane nei ʻoe e kali ana i kahi mamo? E nānā i ke ʻano o nā moeʻuhane hāpai!

He hōʻailona moe maʻamau ka hāpai ʻana. He mea maikaʻi loa ka puke moe i kona wehewehe ʻana. No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai no ka hāpai ʻana. He aha ke ʻano o kou hāpai ʻana a no ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ka hāpai ʻana o kāu hoa? E nānā i ka moeʻuhane o ka hāpai ʻana!

Ua nānā ʻoe i kāu puke moe? Hōʻike pinepine ka hāpai ʻana i ka moeʻuhane i ka poʻe e hoʻolālā nei e lilo i mau mākua. ʻO ka puke moe e wehewehe i kēia moe e like me ka makemake subconscious o ke keiki. Ke moeʻuhane nei ʻoe no ka hāpai ʻana? E nānā pehea e unuhi ʻia ai kēia hōʻailona!

Hele pū nā moe iā mākou i kēlā me kēia pō. ʻOiai ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻomanaʻo, aia kekahi mau mea i hoʻopilikia iā mākou no ka manawa lōʻihi. A laila, ke ʻimi pinepine nei mākou. I nā moʻomeheu he nui, hiki ke loaʻa nā manaʻo like ʻole a hiki ke unuhi ʻia ma nā ʻano like ʻole. A ʻoiai he nui ka poʻe e mālama i nā puke moe me ka hapa o ke kānalua, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hōʻole i ka hana nui a lākou e pāʻani ai i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane, a no laila ka ʻike e pili ana iā mākou iho a me nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a mākou i ʻike ʻole ai.

ʻO nā moeʻuhane a mākou e moeʻuhane nei no ka hāpai ʻana, hiki ke loaʻa i nā wehewehe like ʻole. . He hōʻailona kēia o nā hanana holomua e hiki mai ana iā mākou i ka wā e hiki mai ana. A ʻo ka mea nui, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ka hopena nui i nā poʻe ma ko mākou wahi kokoke. Aia i loko o ka puke moe nā manaʻo like ʻole o kēia hōʻailona.

ʻO ka hāpaiʻana, he kiʻi moeʻuhane, hiki ke manaʻo i ka uluʻana i loko, ka hoʻololi a me ka loiloi houʻana i nā manaʻo kūpono. Inā hāpai maoli ka mea moeʻuhane a ʻike pū ʻia kēia kumu i loko o kāna moeʻuhane, he hopena maʻamau kēia o ke kino i ke kūlana i hoʻololi ʻia e ʻike nei. He mea koʻikoʻi ka hāpai ʻana i ke ola o kēlā me kēia wahine, kahi e lawe mai ai i nā nīnau he nui a me nā hopohopo. No laila, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane paha he pane ʻike ʻole i ka mea e hana nei iā ia i kēia manawa i ke ao maoli. Hāʻule kona mau manaʻo a me kona mau manaʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane.

. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻokōʻana i nā moeʻuhane a me ka hoʻokōʻana i nā hoʻolālā a pau, a me ka hoʻolahaʻana i ka lono maikaʻi. Aia pū ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane i nā wehewehe e pili ana i ka hāpai ʻana no ka waiwai a me ka holomua. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻike mākou i kahi wahine ma ka moeʻuhane me ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana o ka hāpai ʻana, hiki i kēia ke hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole a me ke ʻano o nā kūlana maikaʻi ʻole a mākou e kū ai.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi wahine hāpai i loko o ka moeʻuhane kokoke i nā manawa a pau e hōʻike ana i ka kūleʻa nui i ka ʻoihana a me ka kūleʻa maikaʻi loa i ka honua. ʻO ka pinepine, he hōʻailona ia o nā mea a mākou e kū nei i kēia manawa i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā. Inā aia ʻoe ma waena o kahi papahana koʻikoʻi a ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kahi hoʻolaha a hoʻolaha paha, ma kēia ʻano hiki ke manaʻo ʻia kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi a he hōʻailona e uku pono ʻia kāu hana a me kāu mau hana a e hoʻokō ʻoe i kāu mea e hoʻoikaika nei. . hana.

Inā moeʻuhane ʻoe ua hāpai wale ʻoe, manaʻo nui paha ʻoe i ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi ʻohana ma ke ola maoli. Aia ʻoe i kahi pae o ke ola kahi e pono ai ʻoe i ka maluhia a me ke kūpaʻa, a ua mākaukau hoʻi ʻoe e lawe i ke kuleana no kekahi kanaka. Hiki ke moeʻuhane ʻia kēlā moeʻuhane inā he mau keiki kāu, akā inā moeʻuhane ʻoe iā ia i ka manawa pinepine, ʻo ia paha ke makemake ʻoe e hoʻonui i kou ʻohana.

a me ka holomua ma nā wahi a mākou e mālama nui ai. He hōʻailona kēia no ʻoe e lawe i nā mea i loko o kou mau lima ponoʻī a hana i kāu mea i makemake ai. Aia kekahi mau kūlana e moeʻuhane ai nā kāne i ka hāpai ʻana. ʻAʻole kēia ma mua o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i nā hoʻololi koʻikoʻi i kona ola, e pili ana i nā wahi pilikino a me nā ʻoihana.

Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā moeʻuhane āu e ʻike ai i kāu wahine i hāpai a noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o ia mea? I ka wā mua, manaʻo paha ʻoe he hōʻailona maoli kēia o kona kūlana. Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e ʻike ua unuhi ʻia kēia moeʻuhane ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. Ma nā manaʻo kaulana,ʻo ia kiʻi i loko o ka moeʻuhane i hōʻike mua i ka waiwai waiwai a me ka waiwai. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia moeʻuhane i loko o ka puke moeʻuhane. ʻIke ʻia ʻo ia moeʻuhane hiki ke loaʻa kahi manaʻo hohonu loa ma mua o ko mākou manaʻo.

ʻO ka mea mua, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka hōʻeha aloha a i ʻole ka pilikia ma ka pilina. He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane iā mākou e hana nei nā mea hoʻopilikia i ko mākou ola pilikino i kēia manawa. He hōʻailona kēia e paʻa paha mākou i kahi mea mamao loa mai ka maikaʻi, akā ke koi nei mākou i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o ka subconscious. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo pono i kā mākou pilina, he hopena kaumaha paha.

Mea kākau: Veronika Misyuk