ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi keiki ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona maikaʻi. E nānā i kāna mau wehewehe like ʻole

He kumuhana kaulana loa ke keiki i nā moeʻuhane. Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe pehea ka wehewehe ʻana o ka puke moe i kēia hōʻailona? E ʻike i ka moeʻuhane o ke keiki, ʻo ia hoʻi ke keiki maʻi a me ka make ʻana o kahi keiki ma ka moeʻuhane.

Ua moeʻuhane kekahi poʻe i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻOi aku ka poʻe i moeʻuhane i kahi mamo e ʻike pinepine ʻia ka hōʻailona o kahi keiki i kā lākou moeʻuhane. He aha ka manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane no ke keiki? E ʻike i ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia moeʻuhane i loko!

Manaʻo nā kānaka he ʻoiaʻiʻo ka mea a mākou e ʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane. No kekahi, ʻo nā moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ko mākou mau makemake huna, nā manaʻo, a me nā makaʻu a me nā hopohopo. No nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ke waiho nei lākou i mea pohihihi i ʻike ʻole ʻia o ko mākou noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka mea kānalua, kōkua ka puke moe i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane. He waiwai maoli kēia o ka ʻike e pili ana i nā moeʻuhane a me kā lākou hōʻailona. Kōkua ka puke moe e hoʻomaopopo i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a mākou e hoʻopaʻa nei i ke ola maoli, no ka mea ʻaʻole kūpono iā mākou a i ʻole mākou e hoʻāʻo e holo aku iā lākou, no ka mea makaʻu wale mākou iā lākou.  

ʻO nā kiʻi iʻikeʻia i loko o kā mākou mau moeʻuhane he mea hoihoi pinepine ia, akā i ka manawa likeʻole i hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo iā mākou. . Mahalo iā ia, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi i ke ʻano o nā moeʻuhane a aʻo i ka wehewehe ʻana iā lākou. Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā a ʻo ia ka hopena o kā mākou subconscious. Wahi a kekahi, he hōʻailona nō hoʻi ia o nā kūlana e hiki mai ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana a pono mākou e alo. ʻO nā moeʻuhane e like me ka hōʻike pinepine ʻana i nā pilikia a mākou e kū ai, e like me ka hāʻawi pinepine ʻana iā mākou i nā hoʻonā i nā pilikia he nui e hoʻopilikia iā mākou i kēlā me kēia lā. He manaʻo maikaʻi e kākau i kāu mau moeʻuhane, no ka mea hiki ke lilo i kumu waiwai o ka ʻike e pili ana iā mākou iho - e pili ana i ko mākou mau manaʻo ʻike ʻole, nā manaʻo a me nā makemake, a me ke ʻano pilikino.

Hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka hōʻailona o kahi pēpē ma ka moeʻuhane ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa loa. ʻO ka pinepine,ʻikeʻiaʻo ia i loko o nā moeʻuhane o kēlā poʻe e makemake ana e lilo i mau mākua. . Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki i ke keiki ke hōʻike i ke ʻano ʻole, impulsiveness, a me ka noʻonoʻo. Hiki ke hōʻike i kahi ʻano paʻa ʻole. I ka nānā ʻana i ka puke moe, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ka wehewehe ʻana he hōʻailona ke keiki no ke komo wikiwiki ʻana i ka wā makua. Holo wikiwiki mākou i loko o ka puahiohio o ka hana a me nā kuleana, e nalowale ana i ka honua o ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka mālama ʻole i ka manawa like. He ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hoʻi ia e lawe i ka manawa a nānā i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kou hiki.

Keʻikeʻoe i loko o ka moeʻuhane Hiki ke hōʻailona o ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana me kahi hoa, a ma kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe, hiki ke pōmaikaʻi i ka hanaʻoihana. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka pale keiki me kahi pēpē ma kona mau lima i ka wā hānau, he hōʻailona ia o ke ola hauʻoli a kūleʻa. ʻO ka weheweheʻana o ka moeʻuhane e wehewehe i ka hānauʻana a me kahi pēpē hānau hou e like me ka holomua a me ka hoʻokōʻana i nā papahana a pau.

ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi pēpē i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia a he hōʻailona o ka maluhia a me ka palekana. I. Hōʻike ia i nā manawa hauʻoli a hauʻoli. He hōʻike nō hoʻi ia o ko kākou ʻiʻini i nā lā kahiko, kamaliʻi.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi keiki maʻi he hōʻailona pinepine ia o nā pilikia e hiki mai ana ma ka hana. ʻO ia moeʻuhane ke manaʻo pinepine nei e hāʻule paha kāu mau hoʻolālā āpau, a hiki ke hāʻule kāu ʻoihana. ʻO ia hoʻi ka nui o nā hana a me nā kuleana āu e paʻakikī ai ke mālama. Hōʻike pū ia i kahi kūlana kaumaha e hiki mai ana i kou ʻohana.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka make ʻana o kahi keiki he mea weliweli loa ia. ʻO ka puke moe e wehewehe i kēia moe e like me ka makaʻu a me ka hopohopo no kā mākou keiki. Hoʻokuʻu ʻia kēia mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole a pau i ka wā hiamoe. Hiki ke ala aʻe kēlā ʻano moeʻuhane ke hōʻāhewa mākou iā mākou iho no ka liʻiliʻi o ka manawa me kahi keiki. ʻO ka make ʻana o kahi keiki i ʻike ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke wehewehe ʻia he pilikia ma ka hana a me nā pilikia he nui i kona ola pilikino.

ʻO ke keiki i loko o kou mau lima he moeʻuhane pinepine ia no nā wāhine hāpai, i ka nūhou maikaʻi. Ua haʻi ke keiki i mālama ʻia e ke kāne i ka makuahine hāpai e hānau ʻia ke keikikāne. Ma ka lima 'ē aʻe. He mea pono ke hoʻohui ʻia i ka wā e ʻike ai ka makuahine hāpai i kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki wahine.

Mea kākau: Veronika Misyuk