Ua moeʻuhane paha ʻoe i ka hānau ʻana? E ʻike i ka wehewehe kaulana o kēia moeʻuhane!

ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hānauʻana he kumuhana moeʻuhane kaulana i hana pinepineʻia i nā poʻe e hoʻolālā ana e hānau keiki. Wahi a ka puke moe, ʻo ka hānau ʻana i ʻike ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane e pono e wehewehe ʻia ma muli o ka pōʻaiapili.

ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānauʻana, e like me ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hāpaiʻana, hiki pinepine i ka poʻe moeʻuhane i kahi keiki. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ka makemake o kahi keiki i ke ola maoli e ikaika loa ia i loko o nā moeʻuhane. He aha ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana? E hōʻoia!

ʻO ka hānau keiki i ʻike ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke loaʻa nā ʻano like ʻole. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole pono e unuhi maoli ʻia. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hānau ʻana ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e kali ana ʻoe i kahi pēpē. ʻOi aku ka hohonu o kēia hōʻailona ma mua o ka nānā mua ʻana. No ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano maoli o kēia moe, pono e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mau kikoʻī i ʻike ʻia i loko. He mea nui ʻaʻole wale ka mea i moeʻuhane i ka hānau ʻana, ma lalo o ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana, akā inā ʻo kā mākou hānau ponoʻī a i ʻike mākou i ka hānau ʻana o kekahi. Inā mākou e hui pū i kēia mau mea a pau, e maʻalahi ka hoʻohui ʻana iā lākou i hoʻokahi holoʻokoʻa.

No ka poʻe e ʻimi nei i kahi keiki, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane, e like me ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi keiki, hiki ke hōʻailona i nā manaʻo subconscious a me nā manaʻo e hele pū me nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana me ka hauʻoli. . Makemake paha mākou e haʻalele i ke ʻano o kēia manawa, haʻalele i nā hana maikaʻi ʻole, a i ʻole e hoʻomaka i kahi ala hou o ke ola. Ma kēia pōʻaiapili, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hānauʻana o "ko mākou mea hou." Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻailona i nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo i hānau ʻia i loko o ko mākou poʻo a makemake mākou e ola i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma o ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hoʻomau, e hiki koke mai nā hopena ma mua o kā mākou i manaʻo ai.

I ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana, he mea nui hoʻi ke kāne o ke keiki hānau. . Pōmaikaʻi iā ʻoe, he hoʻi ʻoluʻolu loa kēia i ka wā i hala, a ʻo ka hapa nui o kāu mau hoʻomanaʻo e lilo i mea maikaʻi loa. Ke ʻike ʻoe i ka hānau ʻana o kahi keikikāne, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ka lilo ʻana o ke kuleana. ʻO ka manawa pinepine kēia moeʻuhane, e like me ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kālā, he hōʻailona hoʻi ia o ka pōmaikaʻi ma ka honua honua, a me kahi harbinger o nā lā hauʻoli.

Ma kahi o ka moeʻuhane ʻaʻole i loaʻa ke kāne a me nā keiki, akā e moeʻuhane ana no ka hānau ʻana, he hōʻailona paha kēia e nalowale ana kona inoa maikaʻi ma kāna hana. Hiki nō hoʻi ke lilo ʻo ia i mea hoʻomākeʻaka a me nā ʻōlelo a nā poʻe i makemake ʻole iā ia. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makaʻala me nā mea aloha a pale aku i ka kamaʻilio ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i nā kumuhana pilikino, hiki ke hōʻike ʻia ma hope i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. I kekahi manawa he hōʻailona hoʻi ia e mamao loa ana kāu male mai ka mea āu i moeʻuhane mua ai.

'Ōlelo lākou he hauʻoli pālua ka hānau ʻana o nā māhoe no nā mākua. Akā he aha ke ʻano o ia moeʻuhane? ʻO ia kiʻi i loko o ka moeʻuhane e lilo i mea hōʻailona no mākouʻaʻole e hilinaʻi i nā mea a pau a mākou e hālāwai ai a noho kaʻawale mai nā hoaaloha hou, no ka mea, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopōʻino iā mākou ma mua o ka maikaʻi. Inā ʻoe e hakakā nei me nā pilikia olakino, . I ka wā e hiki mai ana, e ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kou kūlana kino a me kou noʻonoʻo.

Inā ma ka moeʻuhane he wahine hānau ʻoe, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ke ola maoli ʻaʻole pilikia ʻoe i ka hoʻoholo ʻana, ʻoiai ke hana pinepine nei ʻoe me ka wikiwiki a me ka impulsively, ʻo ka pinepine lākou e haʻalulu iā ʻoe. He hōʻailona hoʻi kēia moeʻuhane o nā hana āu e makemake ai e hana i ka wā e hiki mai ana a ʻaʻohe mea a ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ke pale iā ʻoe mai ka lawe ʻana iā lākou.

Inā ma ka moeʻuhane he mea hōʻike wale ʻoe no ka hānau ʻana, ʻaʻohe mea i ke kuleana, he hōʻailona maikaʻi loa kēia no ʻoe. . ʻO ka hope, e ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka mahalo.

ʻO ka hānau mua ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e manaʻo paha i ka wā e hiki mai ana e alo ʻoe i nā pilikia pilikino hou a i ʻole nā ​​​​pilikia ʻoihana e hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō pono. Pono paha ʻoe i kahi manawa hou aʻe e noʻonoʻo ai i nā mea āpau a hoʻokuʻu i nā mea paʻakikī i ko lākou ala.